Comments on: Eighteen months disguised as a man

By: Ian M

Mon, 16 Oct 2006 03:43:53 +0000

Haha yea. Well I’m 22 so I have some already. But yea, don’t worry be happy.

By: Max Howell

Fri, 13 Oct 2006 16:56:44 +0000

My other bit of advice would be have no regrets.

/me attempts to not regret having regrets

By: Ian M

Fri, 13 Oct 2006 16:13:25 +0000

Well the advice isn’t new to me, but I probably do need to hear it.

By: Max Howell

Fri, 13 Oct 2006 10:14:05 +0000

My advice would be, forget your fears, talk, listen and approach them after you’ve got some eye-contact.

Forgetting your fears really is just willpower. I used to very good at it and then I lost that skill, but suddenly nowadays I’m learning it again. It’s not hard, you just have to set aside that part of you that is scared of people’s reactions.

Maybe you don’t need this advice, in which case, apologies! But I heartily recommend that you go out and make the most of your last year. I got sucked into Amarok so blindly in my last year of Uni, to the exclusion of all else. I regret it now as there were a lot of opportunities I shrugged aside.

By: Ian M

Fri, 13 Oct 2006 05:30:50 +0000

I think you could wear dresses and your voice would make up for it.

I’ve been thinking about such things recently as I need to at least start some dating again. Its my last year of college I should make the best of it.